I have been bdsm-aware pretty much as long as I can remember. My experience to date has been limited to personal relationships; I've never been part of a bdsm scene, or any scene, really. I don't place much stock in scenes, labels, movements, or paradigms. But I am starting to explore the local scene a bit.

The checklist method of categorizing yourself, while pleasingly approachable, is lacking in finesse, so I will try to explain myself, although one thing you should know about me is that I hate explaining myself. I'm a musician, a geek, an amateur intellectual, an amateur viking, a changeling, an absent-minded professor. I am also a respectable middle-class guy, although I'm not entirely sure how that happened. I'm pretty down-to-earth for someone who uses the word 'paradigm' in an online profile. I can be very passionate but usually try not to. I like expensive cheese and other small indulgences.

I'm looking for play, and I'm perfectly open towards something steady, but I'm not especially looking to leap into anything serious anytime soon (which doesn't mean never - it just means not anytime soon). Erotically, I lean strongly towards the BD part of BDSM. I'm not looking for lifestyle bdsm, or being dominant outside of the sexual part of a relationship. That said, I don't think that the sexual part of a relationship necessarily stops in the bedroom, or kitchen floor, or wherever - I just don't have any need to express dominance socially, or to play a role other then Me. For me, bdsm is a game, a very serious game that runs deep within me, and I would like to win.

Vierge

Normale

6' 0 (1.83 m)

Verts

Caucasienne

Célibataire

Non

Non

Pieds

Piercings cachés, Tatouages visibles

Marrons

Chat

Non

Diplôme universitaire

Plein-temps

Ordinateurs / Electronique

Web Developer

Seul/e

Des amis passent à l'occasion

Non

Oui - souvent

Mal-aimé/e

Réservé, Sympa, Comique, Sombre, Bizarre

Lecture, Apprendre, Musique, Jeux, Ordinateurs

Faire de nouvelles expériences, Boire un coup, Lire, Aller à un concert, Aller au musée

Skydiving.

Cool

Croyances spirituelles mais pas religieuses

To use my gifts well, find my place, leave things better than I found them, and try to understand that which can be understood. Also I like to make very loud noises occasionally.

Intelligent, Sarcastique, Obscur/e

Je suis musicien/ne

Playing music is my main non-work related pursuit. I go see live music a lot, of all different kinds (or maybe just one kind - as Duke Ellington said once "There are just two kinds of music, good music and bad music.")I listen to NPR quite a lot, I play video games more than I should and I go out dancing a lot less than I should.

Intelligence, Beauté, Humour, Empathie, Etrangeté, Spontanéité, Bon sens, Délicatesse

Domination, Bondage, Rendez-vous, Je veux juste baiser