That is probably the hardest question for anyone to answer because for each person BDSM
means something completely different. For some people its a complete way of life for others its
abit of bedroom fun, for me its somewhere around the middle.

In my opinion doesnt matter what end of the BDSM scale you are on or how you choose to let it effect
your life. The most important thing is your play is safe sane and consensual.

Vaaka