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Looking for a gentle dom
Age 39 From Brooklyn, New York - Online - Over 2 weeks ago
Woman (Sub) Seeking A Man

Basic Information

I Can Speak  
English
I Would Describe Myself As  
Actively looking for a kind, caring, sensual dom/top (between 27 and 40) who is interested in possibly some casual dating that could lead to something more serious. Intelligence is a must, I can't be dominated or turned on by someone who is less intelligent than me. Kink inside the bedroom, vanilla (with some spice) outside of the bedroom.

_A little about me_
+I'm not big on discipline, but I enjoy a good spanking
+I'm not big on pain, but I love having my breasts slapped and nipples pinched hard
+I'm not too experienced, but I'm eager and a bit of a people pleaser
+I'm a great cook
+I'm an alpha female outside the bedroom, but you'd never realize it because +I'm not a nagging/domineering type.
+I've never had sex (vaginal), I'm not avoiding it – it just hasn't happened yet. With the right person sex would most definitely be on the table.
+I have a very high sex drive and I want to find a dom/top who will appreciate this and encourage it
+5' 5" with a voluptuous figure that I enjoy and hope you will too (please be taller than me)

LIMITS INCLUDE: humiliation bimbofication, objectification, collars, leashes, being debased, water sports and anything involving blood. I respect your rights and needs to do these things, but they're not right for me.
Message me if you're interested :)

Also messages before friend requests please?
Sign  
Scorpio

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is  
Curvy
My Height Is  
5' 5 (1.65 m)
My Eyes Are  
Blue
My Ethnicity Is  
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is  
Single
I Have Kids  
No
I Want Kids  
Yes
My Best Feature Is  
Eyes
Body Art  
Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is  
Dark Brown
I Have One Or More Of These  
No pets
Willing To Relocate  
No

Status

My Education Level Is  
College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is  
Self-employed
My Speciality Is  
Other
My Job Title Is  
Product/Experience Designer
I Make This Much In A Year  
$100,000USD To $150,000USD
I Live  
Alone
At Home  
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker  
No
I Drink  
Yes - Socially

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A  
Nerd
My Social Behavior Is  
Friendly, Observant
My Interest And Hobbies Are  
Arts & Crafts, Cooking, Dining, Family, Learning, Movies, Reading, Theater, Tv
My Idea Of A Great Time Is  
Hanging Out With Friends, Going To A Museum, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Staying At Home, The Movies, Trying New Things
An Ideal First Date Would Be  
I'm a sucker for a good meal. But really, just a good conversation sounds kind of ideal to me.
I've Always Wanted To Try  
Flying a plane.
My Friends Describe Me As Being  
Friendly

Views

My Religion Is  
Christian
I Attend Services  
Once A Year
My Political Views Are  
Middle Of The Road
My Goal In Life Is  
constantly shifting, I think for me ultimately I want to inspire kindness and compassion in others. And how I do that evolves from year to year.
My Kind Of Humor Is  
Clever, Dry / Sarcastic

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch  
Documentaries, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Instructional, Movies
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A  
Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To  
Ambient, Blues, Classical, Country, Dance, Folk, Pop
When I Read, I Always Read  
Romance, Science Fiction
My Idea Of Fun Is  
Laughter, a good meal and good company

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?  
Boldness, Empathy, Good Looks, Great Skills, Intelligence, Sensitivity, Thoughtfullness, Wit
What Do You Look For?  
I'd love to find someone who is kind, compassionate and caring – but with an intelligent edge who isn't a push over. Funny is always good too.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?  
Date, Committed
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